Attention to detail, conveying deep love

In the process of love and dating, the details are often like a trickle, although not surging, but can inadvertently moisturize each other’s hearts and minds, conveying endless deep love and affection. Those seemingly insignificant small actions, small words, but has the power to shock the heart, can make feelings in the quiet heat, become more deep and solid.
A warm look may be the catalyst for love. When we look at the person we love, the sincerity, appreciation and love in our eyes can make the other person really feel the importance of their own in our hearts. For example, in a gathering of friends, your eyes always unconsciously follow that special person, and when he occasionally looks at you, you respond with gentle and smiling eyes, this moment of eye contact, as if there is an electric current through each other’s hearts, letting him know that he is the focus of your eyes. In love, couples in the daily life, a full of affectionate gaze, in each other tired to give encouragement, in each other happy to share the joy, can let each other experience the feeling of being deeply loved.
Inadvertent small actions, can also convey strong love. For example, in the cold winter, when you walk together in the street, you gently put each other’s hands into their pockets, hold tightly for his warmth; or when crossing the street, you subconsciously use your arm to protect each other, these small gestures, although simple, but reflects your concern for him and desire to protect. Another example, when you get along with your friends, when the other party is talking, you lean slightly, listen carefully, and nod your head from time to time to show your approval, this kind of focused little action will make your friends feel respected and valued. For lovers, in each other’s work, silently for him to brew a cup of hot tea, placed in his hand, do not disturb him, just with this silent way to express their support, these details can be in each other’s heart ripples of love.
The details in the words should not be ignored. Remember the other person inadvertently mentioned preferences, dreams or worries, and mentioned at the right time, will make the other person feel immense surprise and touching. For example, your friend once said that he had always wanted to go to a certain niche bookstore, and when you one day find out information about the bookstore or have the opportunity to visit that place, you tell him, “I remember you said you wanted to go to that bookstore, and I found some information about it, so we can visit it together.” This kind of attentive memorization of another person’s words shows that you are listening carefully to his every word and care about his every thought. In a relationship, a “good morning” and “good night” is simple, but if you insist on it every day, it will become a habit, an emotional support. When you say softly when the other person is sick, “Honey, you rest well, I will always be by your side to take care of you.” Such words full of concern can soothe the other person’s heart better than any good medicine.
On special days or occasions, the details can even make the love shine through. On each other’s birthdays, in addition to preparing a well-chosen gift, you can also set up the birthday scene with care, decorating it with his favorite colors and elements, or making a handmade birthday card full of memories and blessings. On anniversaries, arrange a date to revisit old haunts, go back to places where you first met or have special significance, and reminisce about the past, these details will make the other person feel how much you value the relationship. For friends, in his achievements, write a sincere letter of congratulations, detailed elaboration of your admiration for him and for him to feel happy for the reason, rather than simply send a congratulatory message, this kind of heartfelt details will make friends more cherish the friendship between you.
Attention to detail is also reflected in the keen perception of each other’s emotions. When you notice that the other person is depressed, do not simply ask “what’s wrong”, but by observing his expression, tone and behavior, try to understand his inner feelings, and then give targeted comfort and support. For example, if your lover is frustrated because of a setback at work, you can say, “I know you put a lot of effort into this project, and now that the results are not satisfactory, you must be very lost. But you have always been excellent in my mind, this time is just a hiccup, we can analyze the reasons together, next time will be better.” This kind of meticulous care for each other’s emotions can make him feel your warmth and reliance when he is vulnerable.
In relationship dating, paying attention to details is an art, which requires us to observe with our heart, feel with love, and express with action. Every little detail is a bridge for us to convey our love to each other, and cumulatively, they can build up an impregnable love castle or friendship building. Let us all become detail-oriented people, in the ordinary life, with those seemingly insignificant details, written out of our romantic love story or sincere friendship chapter, so that people around us can be in our care, feel full of happiness and love. Because the details are small, but can produce great energy in the world of emotions, so that each relationship has blossomed into a unique charm.